People enjoy spending time with you and want to hang out. What is needed is unwavering allegiance to all that I list down as to-dos. You are wondering are these the signs my wife is not attracted to me? Now, things are entirely the opposite because not only is she a shell of her former self, but so are you. She seems to let you be and insist on going alone. The clear signs your wife wants to leave you include: Being on her phone constantly. There could be many reasons why your partner is not showing you the affection you desire, and according to therapist, dating and relationship Reasons Your Partner Isn't Showing You Affection. You have become more like friends Signs my wife is not attracted to me, 11. //